Dinner last night was not great -- DB and I ended up fighting -- a ruined anniversary in some ways -- I cried a lot and we didn't go to sleep until after 1. But this morning dwelling on this seems very unimportant: my dear assistant's "love of her life" was killed in a car accident. None of our petty hurts, angers, misunderstandings seem very important when something like that happens.
So today, DB and I have a do-over date -- to celebrate the 1st day of Year 5. :-)
(And The Cool One is in town to visit with us too.)
Let's all be sure to remember today what's really important -- the ones we love. And let them know with word and deed because life is too damn short.